Changes

Read my journal in 2010. When I had my first video conference call interview. I was asked the 2 questions:
1. Describes the 3 strengths of yourself
2. What is your weakness(es) if any?

My answer at that point of time, the 3 strengths of myself are 1) flexibility 2) dedication & 3) creative
Why flexibility? I believe in any business environment, we need to be flexible to adapt any kind of requests (different business model adaptation), culture (as worldwide business, different culture will expect different response) and changes around us (these changes could be anything, political situation, rules & regulations changes ….etc).

I’m a very dedicated person, any assignments and goal set I will use my way to get it done.

Creativity, one should not blindly follow the book. Creativity and innovation way of work and ideas would lead to some unexpected results (sometime this could be negative or positive).

Weaknesses. I would not say there isn’t. Everyone has their own weakness, there is no perfect person in this world. My weakness can be annoying to someone else. I’m an impatient person and this could be the cause of my bad tempered. Well I will not throw a glass or punch people. However I choose to be silent. Silent treatment may not be the best solution, but for me this will be the best for me to control my emotion. This is what I learned over the years.

After 3 years, I have seen my improvement in emotional control. Maybe what had happened in the past, I’ve lost 2 loved one, lost some good friends (those whom i thought are closed), betrayal and accusations. Stress has never left me, but I found a way – diving to help me to release it.

There is still long way to go but I will continue to learn and control my emotion. :)

Friend

曾几何时是很要好的朋友, 渐渐的不知什么时候开始疏远了。
什么时候开始,什么时候结束。没人知道。
原因何在?无人知晓。
缘分以尽?也许,但只觉可惜。

无论如何,希望你是快乐的。

苦与乐

友人发简讯问我一个问题

友:一份事业能容得下多少苦与乐?
我:就看你如何看待苦与乐?如享苦中作乐,那何来之苦也?

他现在正想把事业扩大,但困难重重。有的时候,自己受的苦又有谁人知?

喜宴

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好久好久都没参加过朋友的婚礼,更别说是喜宴。今年收到不少的请帖,但很多时候是因为工事不在而无法参加。身边的朋友,嫁的嫁娶的娶,有的孩子也几个了,所以剩女无几了。。嘻嘻~(ehem,敏感话题,别问我~)因为我工作的关系,很多时候都不能太早答应出不出席。所以也搞得朋友们不好意思把请帖给寄过来。但不管有没有请帖,红包都不会少。 除了刚好我家办白事时请我的朋友,因为pantang没法给红包,不好意思。多多包涵。

今年公司节约,没飞。所以12月份的时候倒是出席了3场喜宴。见了好多好久不见的朋友。很开心!!其实一向来都不是很喜欢出席类似的“聚会”,因为通常周围都会比较吵杂无法好好的聊。但是可以重遇久违不见的朋友是个收获!出席婚宴是喜事本来就该开开心心的,就算有什么招呼不周或不满的自己知道就好也不好让主人家难做。这是身为朋友唯一能做的。

在这里祝福在2013里结婚的姐妹、兄弟们,恩恩爱爱、白头偕老、早生贵子!